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it's okay

it's okay you got a bad grade in studies.

it's okay you're skinny and don't have beautiful eyes.

it's okay boys don't whistle or smile at you.

it's okay that your friends are leaving because

if they such good friends,

they'd be sitting with you trying to not make you feel like shit.

it's okay your parents shout at you,

their trying their best

and i don't think they remember how it feels to be a teenager anyway.

it's okay you feel as though you've lost yourself,

everybody does from time to time.

it's okay you're still searching for that missing part of you,

we all are.

it's okay to feel alone

but you must often remind yourself that you're not.

you must remind yourself that

you are nice, individual, a replica of nobody else.

sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past

a girl

i'm just a girl

whose hair is never right

who more then once has fallen on her face...

i'm just a girl

who can't stop laughing

at something that happened yesterday...

i'm just a girl

who can't stop smiling because for that moment

everything is perfect...

but sometimes,

i'm a girl

who cries because sometimes nothing is right..

sometimes,

things just aren't meant to be.

sometimes,

no matter how bad you want something,

you gotta let it go...

'touch up the edges, adjust the tones'

to see the stars

i wish you were a book

so i could flip through your pages and

underline my favourite things about you...

fold your pages' corner and

tell my friends about how wonderful you are...

i would save you in my bookshelf

next to my bed

where i come to escape reality and

dream of things beautifully that make me happy...

i would read you again, again and again

as if you were the only book i've got and

i would take you everywhere with me because

you would make me happy with

the way you choose your words and

how sweetly you let them flow through paper...

only in the darkness , you are able to see the stars...

hati perempuan itu terlalu istimewa hinggakan kadang amat sukar untuk kita meramal apa yang berada di dalamnya... kadang kita merasakan amat dekat hatinya pada kita tapi sebenarnya langsung kita tidak tahu apa yang bermain di dalam fikirannya hinggakan kadang kita tak langsung menduga apa yang sedang difikirannya walau kadang bicaranya seolah tiada rasa, namun sebenarnya amat jauh dari dunia sendiri..

jangan biarkan wanita yang berada disisimu bersedih dan makan hati hingga tiada usaha untuk membetulkan keadaan dan menjelaskan perkara sebenar kerana pasti akan ada seseorang yang cuba membuatnya tersenyum dan ketawa... jangan biarkan wanita yang berada disisimu merasakan kesunyian dan terabai kerana pasti akan ada bisikan yang mengodanya untuk mencari keserasian kerana mereka sangat memerlukan perhatian... mereka tidak mendengar apa yang dikeluh... mereka tidak melihat dengan mata walau memandang... mereka hanya tahu satu kisah tapi tidak langsung mengerti akan rasa... kadang kita mampu melihat air mata yang mengalir, seolah ianya telah hilang satu kekuatan diri...

jangan biarkan wanita yang berada disisimu bersedih dan menangis...

jika dibiarkan, terhenti air matanya setelah letih

seolah hatinya juga telah tawar dan pudar...

maal hijrah

alhamdulillah kerana masih diberi kesempatan untuk meraikan kedatangan Maal Hijrah... semoga kehadiran tahun baru Islam ini akan lebih memberi aku kekuatan, kesabaran, keikhlasan dan ketenangan untuk melalui perjalanan hidup sebagai seorang anak, seorang kakak, seorang adik, seorang kawan, seorang pelajar dan seorang umat Islam yang lebih baik... banyak yang telah dilupakan dan ditinggalkan dalam mengejar keindahan dunia... semoga keberkatan itu datang bersama keindahan awal muharram... yang pergi akan tetap terus pergi dan yang datang harus tetap dihadapi... semoga Dia terus melindungi dan menjaga dalam setiap pilihan dan langkah untuk mendapatkan yang terbaik...

yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery,

today is a gift and that's why it's called the present of Muharram

the wrong choices

i learned that things

don't always turn out the way you planned,

or the way you think they should...

i've learned that there are things

that go wrong, don't always get fixed

or get put back together the way they were before...

i've learned that some broken things stay broken,

i've learned that you can get through bad times

and keep looking for better ones...

what's done is done...

what is gone is gone...

don't leave much room in future

for people who left us in the past...

sometimes the wrong choices take us to the right places

how beautiful the sky is

no one says what they really feel,

they always hold it inside...

they're sad but they don't cry...

they're happy but they don't dance or sing...

they're angry but they don't scream...

life isn't only about the destination,

but the journey that gets us there...

in life, there are 4 things you can't get back...

the love after it's give...

the word after it's said...

the action after it's done...

and the time after it has passed...

everyone walks with their heads down

and no one sees how beautiful the sky is...

sometimes the question is simple

sometimes people come into your life

and you know right away

that they were meant to be there,

to serve some sort of purpose,

teach you a lesson,

or help you figure out who you are

and or who you want to become...

you never know who these people may be

but when you lock eyes with them,

you know at the very moment

that they will affect your life in some profound way...

the moment you flip a coin,

you know what your decision is...

not because of the side it landed

but because in the few seconds the coin was in the air,

you knew what you wanted...

sometimes the question is simple

but the answer is complicated...

it will soon get dark...

sometime in life

you need to just take a step back

and see where all the pieces fall...

in that time you will see

what is important and

what never was...

be thankful for all the struggles you go through...

they make you stronger, wiser and humble...

life is too short to be sad all the time,

so laugh everyday, smile when you want to cry,

love the ones that care for you,

forget the ones that don't,

hang out with friends whenever possible,

regret nothing because at one time it was everything you wanted,

never backstab someone cause they will backstab you back,

and just live life to the fullest because you only get one life...

'enjoy the light because it will soon get dark'

simple letters

life

4 simple letters, yet so complicated

beauty

6 simple letters, yet so hard to see

love

4 simple letters, yet so confusing

destiny

7 simple letters, yet so unpredictable

feelings

8 simple letters, yet so unexplainable

words

5 simple letters, yet there aren't enough to express

regrets

6 simple letters, yet they never seem to disappear

silence

7 simple letters, yet it can be so loud

time

4 simple letters, yet there is never enough

sadness

7 simple letters, yet it lingers everywhere

pain

4 simple letters, yet it takes so long to heal

mistakes

8 simple letters, yet they can never be erased

give and gain

what is life about???

it's about giving something...

the more you give, the more you gain...

it's about leaving behind...

a tiny bit better place for our future generations...

you shouldn't look behind

because yesterday is already gone...

you shouldn't look ahead

because tomorrow may never come...

in the end life is only about trying to live up

to your full potential at this very moment

because if you waste this moment missing the past

or staring at the future,

one day you will wake up feeling sorry...

one day you will realize that

you lost the moon while counting the stars...

that you lost what you had

while trying to reach out to what you didn't have...

whispered

have you wondered which hurts the most???

saying something and wishing you hadn't???

or saying nothing and wishing you had???

i guess the most important things are the hardest things to say...

don't be afraid to tell someone that you love them...

if you do, they might break your heart...

if you don't, you might break theirs...

have you ever decides not to become taken

because you were so afraid

of losing what you already had with that person???

your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't...

you can't tell your heart what to do...

it does it on its own...

when you least suspect it or even when you don't want it to...

have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had

but that other person was too afraid to let you???

too many of us stay walled up

because we are too afraid to care too much...

for fear that the other person does not care as much or even at all...

have you ever denied your feelings for someone

because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle???

we tell lies when we are afraid...

afraid of what we don't know...

afraid of what others will think...

afraid of what will be found out about us...

afraid of what will be found out later...

but every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger...

life is all about risks and it requires you to jump...

don't be a person who has to look back

and wonder what they would have done or could have had...

what you would do if

every time you fell in love you had to say good bye???

what would you do if

every time you wanted someone they would never be there???

what would you do if

your best friend died tomorrow

and you never get to tell them how you felt???

would you do if

you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them???

what would you do if

you never got the chance to say i am friends with all of my family

and they know i love them???

people live but people die...

if you died tomorrow, you would be in my heart...

would i be in yours???

if you care about me

as much as i care about you,

you will stay and send this back...

we might be best friends for one year,

pretty good friends the next year,

don't talk that often the next

and don't want to talk at all the year after that...

so i just wanted to say,

even if i never talk to you again in my life,

you are special to me

and you have made a difference in my life...

i look up to you, respect you,

truly cherish you, most of all i care about you...

wordless wednesday # 20

never

never treat some one like they're second best,

never get less than 8 hours of rest,

never tell someone that they mean nothing to you,

never sue someone who doesn't deserve to be sued,

never look in the past when your futures ahead,

never check some one's pulse,

and still mistake them for dead...

never drink soda when you have plain water,

never say that you don't care when you did,

never trust anyone who isn't yourself,

never push photos to the back of the shelf,

and never believe that you can't measure up...

never think it's empty when it's a full cup,

never act selfish just when your mother's around,

never expect for help when you're on the ground,

and if there is anything you should never do,

is pretend you don't like him when you love everything he do...

never regrets

sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, to teach you a lesson or help you figure out who you are and or who you want to become... you never know who these people may be but when you lock your eyes with them, you know at the very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way... sometime things will happen to you that may seem horrible, painful and unfair at first but in reflection you will find that without overcoming these obstacles, you would have never realized your true potential, strength, will power, or even the heart... everything happens for reason and nothing happens by chance or by mean of good luck... illness, injury, sick, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of our soul... without this small test, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere... it would be safe and comfortable but dull, not attractive, colorless and utterly pointless... the people that you meet can affect your life, your success and downfalls you experience will help to create who you are and who you will become even the bad experiences are learned from... in fact, they are the most poignant ones... if someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart... if someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to many things... make everyday count, appreciate every moment and take from those moments as much as you could because you may never be able to experience it again... talk to people that you have never talked to before and actually listen... let yourself fall in love again, break free and set your sights high... hold your head up because you have every right too... tell yourself that you are a great individual and believe in yourself... if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you... you can make your life anything as your wish..... create your own life, go out and live it with absolutely NO REGRETS... most importantly, if you love someone tell him because you NEVER know what tomorrow may have in store... learn a lesson in life in every day you live... tomorrow might never come...

learn

i've learned that we don't have to change friends,

if we understand that friends change...

i've learned that something that you do in an instant,

can give you heartache for life...

i've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words,

it may be that last time you see them...

i've learned that we are responsiable for what we do,

no matter how we feel...

i've learned that either you control your attitude,

or it controls you...

i've learned that my best friend and i can do anything or nothing,

and still have a good time...

i've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you are down,

will be the one who helps you get up...

i've learned that sometimes when i am angry i have the right to be angry,

but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel...

i've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them too,

doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have...

i've learned that maturity has more to do,

with what types of expirences you've had and what you learned from them,

and less to do with how many years you have lived...

i've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others,

but sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself...

i've learned that just because two people argue,

doesn't mean they don't love each other,

and just because they don't argue,

it doesn't mean they do love each other...

i've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secrect,

it may change you life forever...

i've learned that sometimes the people that you love most in life,

are taken from you too soon...

i've learned that you can't make someone love you,

all you can do is be someone who can be loved,

and the rest is up to them...

i've learned that no matter how much i care,

some people just don't care back...

i've learned that it takes years to build up trust,

and just seconds to destroy it...

i've learned that it's not what you have in life,

but who you have that counts...

i've learned that you can keep going,

long after you think you can't...

i've learned that their are people who love you dearly,

but just don't know how to show it...

i've learned that even when you feel you have no more to give,

a friend cries out and you find the srenght to help...

i've learned that our backgrounds and circumstances may have influenced our lives,

but we are responsiable for who we become...

15 things

15 things you probably never knew or thought about....

1. at least five people in this world love you so much they would die for you...
2. at least fifteen people in this world love you in some way...
3. the only reason anyones would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you...
4. a smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you...
5. every night, someone thinks about you before they go to sleep...
6. you mean the world to someone...
7. if not for you, someone may not be living...
8. you are special and unique...
9. someone that you don't even know exists loves you...
10. when you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it...
11. when you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look... you most likely turned your back on the world.
12. when you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it but if you believe in yourself, probably sooner or later, you will get it...
13. always remember the compliments you received and forget the rude remarks...
14. always tell soemone how you feel about them... you will feel much better when they know....
15. if you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great...